Conflict is part of life. How can we solve it?

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Dec. 2, 2022

No more "bro culture" in tech companies

Donna Douglass Williams is the Head of Ombuds at Pinterest, one of the first Ombuds programs in the tech sector. Ombuds is a confidential, impartial, informal resource that provides support to the workforce in navigating work challenges, developing constructive resolutions to conflicts, and aims to promote an inspired workplace culture.…

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Nov. 20, 2022

Podcast cover fotosu nasıl olmalı?

Bir podcast yaptığınızda, kullanacağınız fotoğraf, podcastte ele alınan konuya nasıl yaklaşmalı? Açık ve net mi olmalı? Yoksa konuyu daha dolaylı mı anlatmalı? Bunun için bir sanat eserinden faydalanmak mümkün müdür? Sanatçı Zeren Göktan'ın Beklenmeyen Hareketler serisinden Arka Bahçe adını taşıyan cover fotoyu kullanan Anlaşabiliriz'de sanatçı fotoyu çekerken ne düşünmüştü ve…

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Nov. 7, 2022

Walking helps our imagination

In this episode of the podcast, my guest was Gemma Varona from Basque Country, Spain. She talked about what a restorative walk is; why this was needed in the Basque Country but also in general; what kind of walks are asked for by people in their project. This short video…

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Oct. 21, 2022

Healing through walking with those who harmed you

In this episode of my #podcast, my guest was Gemma Maria Varona Martinez from the Basque country, Spain. She described what restorative walk is; why it is needed in a society; how walking as an activity is different than sitting in a court room and searching for justice. Here is…

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Oct. 13, 2022

Dünya Kurumsal Ombusluk günü kutlu olsun

Kurumsal ombudsluk nedir? Twitter’dan Pinterest’e; üniversitelere; BM, Dünya Bankası gibi uluslararası kurumlara niye yayıldı? Ombus kimdir, ne yapar? Niye mahkemelere alternatif anlaşmazlık mekanizmalarına olan ihtiyaç artıyor? Bu videoda bu konuları ele aldım. Anlaşabiliriz podcastimde konu üç ayrı kişi tarafından farklı açılarıyla anlatıldı. Altınbaş Üniversitesi ombudsu Gizem Güray’ı dinlemek için: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0L8dJbKnMFnnTEyXzbjWbB?si=e6Rl65IOSTedaWGzdTGsaw…

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Oct. 12, 2022

Babasını öldüren bomba 38 yıl önce patladı. Jo Berry bambaşka bir yoldan yürüdü.

12 Ekim 2022, Anthony Berry’nin 38. ölüm yıldönümü. Babanızı öldürmüş kişi ile buluşmanızı sağlayan koşullar nedir; böyle bir girişime etrafınızdakiler nasıl tepki verir; kişi kendi korku ve ihanet hissi ile nasıl başeder; başka anlaşmazlık yaşayan ülkeler Jo Berry ve Pat Magee arasındaki bu örnekten nasıl faydalanabilir? Tüm programı Spotify veya…

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Oct. 7, 2022

Yargı belirtmeden konuşamamak

Bu toplumun bireyleri olarak konuşarak sorun çözme becerimiz sınırlı. Çünkü konuşma anlamak için yaptığımız değil, sıklıkla yenmek ve adeta hükmetmek, doğruyu dikte etmek için yapılan bir faaliyet olabiliyor. Böylece konuşmanın, karşınızdakine katılmasanız bile, onun bakış açısını anlamak için bize sunduğu fırsatı kaçırıyoruz. Olumsuz bir söz dahi nasıl söylenmeli ki muhatabı…

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Sept. 26, 2022

Anger and hate will control you and your life

In this episode of the podcast, my guests were Robi Damelin and Layla Alsheikh from the Parents Circle. Robi and Layla talked about the importance of reconciliation and seeing the other as human and developing empathy despite the ongoing occupation and warfare in their countries. Here is a direct quote…

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Sept. 25, 2022

You cannot kill anybody in the name of my child

In this episode of the podcast, my guests were Robi Damelin and Layla Alsheikh from the Parents Circle. Robi and Layla talked about the importance of reconciliation and seeing the other as human and developing empathy despite the ongoing occupation and warfare in their countries. Here is a direct quote…

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Sept. 21, 2022

One day they came and talked about peace

n this episode of the podcast, my guests were Robi Damelin and Layla Alsheikh from the Parents Circle. This is an organization comprised of more than 600 Palestinian and Israeli bereaved families who believe in non-violence and reconciliation. Robi and Layla talked about the importance of reconciliation and seeing the…

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Sept. 19, 2022

An excerpt fm the letter of Robi Damelin, The Parents Circle

In this episode of the podcast, my guests were Robi Damelin and Layla Alsheikh from the Parents Circle. This is an organization comprised of more than 600 Palestinian and Israeli bereaved families who believe in non-violence and reconciliation. Robi and Layla talked about the importance of reconciliation and seeing the…

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Sept. 15, 2022

Toplumsal barış, bir barış anlaşmasından önemli

Podcastin bu bölümünde the Parents Circle’dan Robi Damelin ve Layla Alsheikh’i konuk ettim. İkisi de İsrail-Filistin arasındaki bu uyuşmazlıkta çocuklarını kaybetmiş. Acılı 600 aileden oluşan bu kuruluşta bir araya gelmişler. Karşı tarafı insan olarak görme; empati ve şiddetsizliğe inanıyorlar. Nasıl; ne zaman; niye bunları anlattılar.

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Aug. 26, 2022

Geri bildirim nasıl olmalı?

İş hayatında insanlar giderek daha fazla geri bildirim almak veya vermek zorunda kalıyor. Peki iyi bir geri bildirim nasıl olmalı? Hangi unsurları içermeli ki kişi söylenenleri duyabilsin? Bu kısa videoda bunlara değindim.

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July 29, 2022

With a Citizens' Assembly, Brexit would be different Guest: Barry O'Mahoney

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 29, 2022

In a citizens assembly, you get conflicting views without the conflict

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 26, 2022

Citizens Assembly for managing conflict Guest: Barry O’Mahoney

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 4, 2022

How is conflict working for your organization? Guest: Cinnie Noble

In this episode of the podcast, Cinnie Noble explains what conflict coaching is; the necessary conflict competencies needed for people in management positions; how a manager's style of conflict effect new generations and more. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/making-managers-conflict-confident-guest-cinnie-noble?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or you can listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5yAALSK8BL2Jnmp1c1nJsp?si=NpnZkD0JTXGg-fbw1d6kaA For the…

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June 29, 2022

Force, vanquish or defeat the other side?

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Bob Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 27, 2022

Why negotiate?

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Bob Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 24, 2022

How people came to view dialogue.

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Robert Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 6, 2022

Istanbul like 100 years ago

In this episode of the podcast, the stories of two people are presented. One is Sergey Ponomarev who is a journalist from Russia. He talks about the exodus cities of Russians. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/perspectives-on-staying-leaving-in-war?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3SyaSoRFdQyDqVwfa2rWJm?si=a2lqnIK_Tg61oGnUWMjVGQ For more on the episode and the…

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May 31, 2022

How we left for Istanbul

In this episode of the podcast, the stories of two people are presented. One is Sergey Ponomarev who is a journalist from Russia. He describes how he and other journalists left their country for Istanbul. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/perspectives-on-staying-leaving-in-war?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3SyaSoRFdQyDqVwfa2rWJm?si=a2lqnIK_Tg61oGnUWMjVGQ For more on…

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May 29, 2022

Perspectives on staying & leaving in war, here is an excerpt from the letter of Tatyana Bilyk.

In this episode of #WeCanFindAWay, #mediator Tatyana Bilyk says that hatred in #Ukraine is due to fear, #anxiety and helplessness. As much as it helps to defend against #invasion it is also important not to turn into monsters.

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May 29, 2022

University ombuds Tom Kosakowski on what changed and what didn’t in universities.

In the latest episode of #WeCanFindAWay, I spoke with the university #ombuds Tom Kosakowski. Here is an excerpt as to how ombuds contribute to universities.

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